Should You Do a First Look? Let’s chat💕
Photo by Jessica Vogelsang Photography
You’ve seen the TikToks. You’ve pinned the photos. And now you’re wondering... should we do a first look?! It’s one of those wedding day choices that people either love or skip — and I’m here to spill the tea (with zero judgment). Let’s break it down!
🥂 The Pros (aka why so many couples are obsessed)
Hair & makeup is fresh and flawless. You’re camera-ready and everything’s still perfect before the hugs, wind, and happy tears start doing their thing.
You can join cocktail hour (or sneak away together). Get your portraits done early, then either enjoy a drink with guests or have a quiet "just married" moment alone. Highly recommend.
It’s an emotional moment, just the two of you. No crowd, no pressure — just you two soaking it in before the day takes off.
More flexibility with sunlight + timing. Want those dreamy golden hour portraits but your ceremony is later? First look gives you options.
😬 The cons (just keeping it real)
It breaks tradition. If that aisle moment has always been your dream, this could feel like a departure from that vision.
can lessen the drama of the aisle moment. Seeing each other earlier may make that big reveal feel a little less “cue the cinematic music.”
Earlier start to the day. Yep — more photos early on means hair and makeup needs to start bright and early. Pack snacks and coffee, friends.
Final thoughts: Whether you’re all-in on the first look or holding out for the aisle, there’s no wrong choice. Just do what feels most you. ✨ Your day, your way — always.