PSA: You’re Not Supposed to Know What You’re Doing! 💍✨
Photo by olivia cain Photography
okay, let’s just get this out there: you are not supposed to know what you’re doing when you plan a wedding. Like… at all. And that’s not just okay—it’s normal!
Think about it. Most people plan a wedding exactly once in their lives (and if you’re doing it more than once, no judgment, just extra practice 😉). It’s not like there’s a secret handbook you were supposed to pick up at engagement ring checkout. So if you’re feeling overwhelmed, confused, or like you’re Googling “what even IS a seating chart?!” at midnight—welcome to the club, friend.
Here’s another truth bomb: we don’t expect you to know anything—literally anything—including how much vendors cost. Save yourself from sticker-shock horrors and the hours of googling, comparing, and spreadsheet chaos you definitely didn’t sign up for. That’s exactly why planners exist—to keep your sanity intact and your wallet in check!
So if you’re stressing, just breathe. You don’t need all the answers. That’s why you hire vendors, lean on your wedding party, and yes, maybe even hire a planner to keep your sanity intact. We’re here to guide you, cheer you on, and make sure the process doesn’t turn into a stress-fest.
Take a deep breath, pour yourself a glass of bubbly (or mocktail), and repeat after me:
✨ I am not supposed to know what I’m doing. And that’s exactly why it’s all going to be okay. ✨
Because planning your wedding isn’t about being perfect—it’s about celebrating love, laughter, and a little bit of chaos along the way. 💖